Fresher Take on Feminism
Posted October 13, 2010on:
I’m obviously a feminist, although I’m not a member of any organized feminist group yet. I guess I’m too busy developing myself to even bother joining one. One thing I noticed with a lot of feminist movements is their focus on eradication of domestic violence and teaching livelihood programs to victims like basket weaving. Although the advocacy is positive, it also goes to show how backward we still are. It means that many girls still tolerate some slaps and kicks, and they only shout foul when their life is endangered?? That’s still a ridiculous way of living a life. After these girls escape from their husband, they are taught a stupid way of making money like basket weaving?? What is that, a promotion of cheap labor for china factories?
I think feminist groups should highlight and focus optimal development for girls instead of dwelling on their victimhood. Man/Men shouldn’t even be our goal. We may even exceed some of their expertise, who knows?
The 4 key areas that girls should focus on to attain optimal development are as follows:
1. Education and Awareness= One can be academically competent but may lack the awareness of her rights as an individual. Individual is higher than/precedes gender.
2. Physical Competence = Girls should learn basic dodging and kicking, should have decent mobility for function and protection.
3. Financial/Economic Independence= Most girls endure because they can’t fend for themselves. Stop basket weaving for 10 pesos a basket.
4. Birth Control= Girls go to a downward spiral when they cannot control giving birth. A baby is a financial liability, a time consuming, energy depleting task that prevents girls from doing items 1,2, & 3. Take Charge of this! This is the number 1 weakness of girls because they think that it’s their husband who decides for this, or are afraid that if they don’t give in to sex, their partner will fool around. Who cares? If the guy leaves, let him leave. If the guy impregnates someone else, so be it. We shouldn’t care how his life or their life turn out. We want to make sure how our life will turn out.